Hey guys,

I approached 2 girls in a club last night dancing together on their own. They had a massive bitch shield from the start and when I made my opener they made a (who the fuck is this guy face) and completely ignored me, while flicking their hands in a (shoo-off) gesture. This type of response makes me feel quite angry and disrespected which I know is not cool as im just buying into their frame. I tried to engage one of the girls again and she said 'we are, french and we don't speak english" haha. It was just a no go situation.

And the frustrating thing was they weren't even that hot! I would say a 6/7.

How would you handle this, while keeping your dignity. Would you persevere or walk off. Is there a good comeback line to put them in their place while demonstrating higher value?

Cheers,

Titian

Hey Titan,

Thats a rough one. It sounds like the senerio started off bad from the beginning.

They were dancing. Its hard to talk to someone while they are dancing. Some times when they are dancing, they are just looking for a hot guy just to come dance on them, you can usually tell by how drunk they look and how much skin they are showing. -worked great back in college, rare but sometimes works in clubs. High risk, but if it does work, automatically you have built a physical connection. - Also be aware of social norms. I know in the US that happens a lot. In Ireland it is weird if your grinding.

My other thought is you the whole situation was wrong. You might not have went over to them correct (did you walk right toward them? or did you go over your shoulder?), you might not had good body posture (did you lean in?), basically I think you didn't show enough value before the approach.

there a million things that affect it. My suggestion is to work on your approach and not try to come up with a comeback to a set that isn't interested.

Hey axtion,

I walked right over to them, and I think my body posture was ok, although can't quite remember. How do you show high value in that situation from the approach? And if they still act like bitches, I still walk off feeling shut down which kind of sucks!