hi all

here is some background, i have been txting this HB8 an i know she is cleary into me so i arrange a few dates with her but she has always pulled out (dont know why ?)

then i get a txt saying she is seeing someone else (tottaly gutted) but i sent her a txt saying;
shame, i hope he appreciates u, an dont be a stranger to me now x

she txts back saying;
i wont an am sorry, wish it was us x

what the hell is that meant to mean ??
i havent replied yet, i need somehelp please

This is what happened. During the time you were texting back and forth with the girl, she met another guy. She met up for dates with him, while canceling on you. He fucked her. You kept texting. She felt guilty and came clean. Her last text was just to soften the blow. At least she was honest about it. Most women will just stop responding to your texts.

The guy above me is pretty much right.
This sounds way too needy. Go aggressive right from the start and don't let this happen again. If she's seeing someone else, so what? You can still make your move, and you don't get her, so what? Change your way of thinking. She doesn't want to be appreciated, she wants to fucked hard. Once you realize that, you'll become much better at this.

good luck!

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I have to return some videotapes...

Cheers for the replies guys much appreciated

Just wanted to know what u mean by "Go aggressive right from the start" ???

Am a complete afc, but got to say if it wasn't for use guys I will still be in the house

Man, I hear you. I was there. Congratulate yourself for every success, but don't get stuck into that mental masturbation mode.

I know how it is. First you are clueless and know nothing about women (I for one knew absolutely nothing before I found out about community), then you find out Mystery Method and suddenly it all makes sense. And you go out and do it, you fail, then you get some success (getting a girl interested in you is success and kudos for that), and than one day you realize it's all bullshit. It's not the lines and it's not about the girls, it's about becoming the best man that you can be. And then you find girls attracted to you without you even trying to hook up with them. It's just that who you are naturally attracts them to you.

You can't get there over night. What helped me significantly are some guys who do this without focusing on routines and structure, like Paul Janka and Corry Sky. Listen a few times to Paul Janka Beyond the Digits and Corry Sky Magnetic Mindset, start internalizing those beliefs and it will set you in a good direction.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Hey thanks for all the info greatly appreciated

I have been reading alot on gamblers material an I think there good just need to go out an test them out

I will get this inner afc out of me. The main problem for me is defantly is my confidence.