I keep having this problem many times over and it always trips me up.
I learned lots of things from this community. The most valuable is that women want sex just as much as men. My job isn't to "seduce" any one. I just want a women to act on her physical wants in a responsible manner. My basic mind set with this is "we both want to have sex with each other so stop making it hard to get what you want."
This mind set is effective. Society socially programs us to not enjoy gratifying ourselves in any manner not just sexually.
Think about how drinking, video games, dancing, eating, sleeping in, pornography/masturbation and more are all either considered negative or at least not positive. None of these things are inherently bad. In fact drinking, sleeping in, masturbation and dancing have all been proven to be very healthy for you if done in moderation.
Religion and societal taboos would have us deprive ourselves of the things we want. Especially sex. I'll never understand why two consenting adults having responsible sex is immoral. If a women and me want to have sex why does she feel it is a bad thing to do? Especially when it is something that makes two people happy and if done responsibly has no negative repercussions?
The other day I moved fast with a girl I met on my new shift at work. In about an hour of time we spent together we were making out and practically humping on the sales floor (we work at some retail place). We went to the back room so we could enjoy ourselves and we did. She didn't want to go all the way because she claims she's a virgin. The whole time her LMR was OMG I'm a good girl I don't do this. I'm wondering; how is any of this is bad?
I was in bed with some other girl and her LMR was, and I'll never forget "You don't even know my NAME!"
I called her by another girl name that was very similar when we were in bed.
See my question is two part
1) Why can't women accept sex and not need some emotional attachment? Girls want men to create some narrative, a romantic relationship with her despite it being true or not. We both want sex and they try to force me into a LTR, do they want to be lead on?
2) If a girl forces me into a relationship knowing all I want is sex am I doing something wrong by letting her believe we are? If a girl asked me if we were exclusive she knows I'll say no but they never ask. Instead they'd rather believe we were.
BTW I know night game, clubs, parties, and one night stands avoid all of this but I cant do any night game this year for legitimate personal reasons. I don't create excuses for myself.
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