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By asking her out, do you mean just ask her out to a regular dinner? i am thinking about asking her to dinner next monday, do you think this is a good next move? should i try to k-close after dinneR? thanks man
I would never go to dinner for a first date. Too expensive and way too much pressure on both of you (sitting there facing eachother with nothing else going on then conversation). I'm always in favor of having an awesome active life and asking her a long with it (For instance something regular you do with friends and asking her to tag a long), this way if she flakes it's no big deal and you don't get "stood up". Also you have other people you can interact with if the conversation dulls out so there's no awkward silences. (Even though silences can be good sometimes, because they allow sexual tension to occur).
If you're a bit further ahead in the relationship (which I doubt gauging from you asking if she likes you yet) you can go for drinks, go shopping or have a walk in the park or whatever. It doesn't have to cost much, spending time with each other and having FUN is what it's about. You can do basically anything really...
Oh, and kissing is something that happens when both of you are comfortable with each other, it shouldn't be the end result of anything. I'll advise on kissing her on the date and then just proceeding with the date, having fun.
Kissing her at the end will just put a lot of pressure on you, you'll be busy thinking about it when the date is coming to a close; "OMG, this is it.... I have to do it! here goes nothing!".
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