I encountered this a lot in high energy environments.

You're dancing at the club and some of the girls (the hottest ones) get constantly be hitted on by AFCs that try to dance with them (not in a funny way), speak with them, getting too close to them, etc.

So, at this point I'm basicly stuck.

If I go speak to her she'll put up a HUGE bitch shield, because she've been hitted on that AFC guy that put his penis on her leg as opener, and her mind frame towards me is "here comes an other fucking one, I'm going to kill him".

Basicly, the only thing I've come up is
1) Ignore them (for now). Don't even look at them.
2) Start to befriend other proximity less-attractive sets.

Maybe at some point, I can open with something like "I've seen you been hitten on by hundreds of weird guys tonight! Poor girl!". If she's dancing and the music is loud, even a simple opener like this one will be difficult to deliver...

Comments? Suggestions?
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Also, an other issue that came up several time during the nights.

I'm dancing by myself, having fun.

A girl approaches me and index her friend in a sort of subtle "go dancing with my friend she need it so much". So I go dancing with her friend and the bitch put on a HUGE bitch shield, like she runs away from me, she look at the grond or even giving me the shoulder, or she pushes me away, and all this kind of stuff.

I didnt know what to do at that point. The bitch is clearly drunk and she's going through some kind of emotional breakdown (her friend is trying to cheer her up, inviting me to dance with her).

I didnt know what to do at that point.

The only thing I came up with is to gave up the emotional-broke drunk bitch and start sarging the girl that actually opened me...

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The final question would be...

Are some bitch shield actually impossible to break?

In both of previous cases the girls clearly want to have some fun, but they put on huge bitch shield. I think there are ways to burst through the shield in those situations. I just don't know them yet...

So I think there is some way. And it also should not involve a lot of talk, because we're in the dance section of the club, so loud music, etc.

Or maybe the solution would be to start sarging in the less-loud palces of the club!

Gaming women in a club can be extremely difficult. You have to compete with all the horny guys looking for something to stick their d*ck in (hopefully you are not one of them), the loud music and the bitchy friend looking to protect her girl from all the creeps. And, if you are dealing with a girl who is there for attention, free drinks, or an ego boost from rejecting men all night (hence the bitch shield), you will definitely have your work cut for you. I am not trying to scare you off, but you should know what you're up against.

Look for IOIs before approaching, this will weed out all the flakes. If a girl likes what she sees (your demeanor specifically), she will let you know with a smile or some eye contact. There are other IOIs of course, I'm just generalizing. This is what I usually do and it works well for me. I never approach unless she gives me a reason to (like finding something to bust on her about)...especially in a chaotic environment like a dance club.

What is with this girl telling you to go dance with her friend because her friend needed it? F*ck that. You should have told that girl to kiss your ass, you're not a therapist. If her friend was that drunk, what she needed to do was sober up and get a life. Don't EVER 'jump' like that for a girl again. I like the way you decided to sarge on the girl that approached you, but you should have done that from the beginning.

Playfully busting on a girl, or calling her out for acting bitchy are great ways to bust through that shield, just watch her behavior before deciding which method to use. If you are dealing with a nice girl that is keeping her guard up because of her environment (a club), acting to arrogant will kill any attraction. However, if a girl comes off like a complete bitch for no apparent reason, call her ass out on her behavior (in a cool unphased way) and walk away. If she doesn't chase after you or try to get your attention, she will at the very least remember how you didn't put up with her bullshit. And that is the kind of men women are looking for.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

An other of this sticking points happened to me last night.

I was dancing in a club. In this club there are two cages where people can dance in.

So I was dancing in the lower cage, the other one was empty. In order to get to the upper cage, you have to pass through the lower one.

A group of three girls come up and start dancing on the upper cage. The girls were above the average, we can say HB7, HB7.5, HB8. But they were behaving like they were HB10, HB11, HB12 all night long.

I mean literally, I never seen the face of two of them because they had HUGE bitch shield they didnt want to make eye contact with anyone, they were looking at the ground or somewhere else.

Anyway, I knew that the bouncer will come and will say "only two people in a cage". So the bouncer come and I see the girls almost panicking!

It was funny because it was clear that they didn't want to give up the fun of staying in the cages, BUT they absolutely didnt want one of them to dance in same cage with me (because of their ridiculous bitch shield).

So, I politely went out of the cage (mistake) so one of them went to the lower cage, and I tried to start a convo with her, but basicly as soon as she realize I was going to speak with her, she IMMEDIATELY run on the upper cage again (even if it was forbidden by the bouncer, lol!)

So the point is, I really didnt care about opening them because they were very troublesome I guess, but I would like to improve my game, so I am open to some suggestion on how to behave in this case...

So far, I can come up with this, I don't know if it would have worked...

I should have stayed in my lower cage and when they gave up their upper cage because of their bitch shield, I would have mocked them like "Seriously? Nobody of you has the courage of dance with me? You prefer go out of the cage? Ahaha... You're not even my type and I have a girlfriend! You grils are funny!". And it would have been a great deliver because all three of them have to pass through my cage in order to get out and I can deliver my line with confidence and bravado...

What do you think?

Any other suggestions on how to handle this case?

Neg on the opening?

Heres what you should be doing next time, if you may:
You make eye contact with the hottest of these girls, and smile a bit. Then you grab her hand gently (no sharp motions! lol) and head to the other cage or whatever, without even looking back at her.

"Seriously? Nobody of you has the courage of dance with me? You prefer go out of the cage? Ahaha... You're not even my type and I have a girlfriend! You grils are funny!"

Really? You'll get a 'huh?'