When im with a girl in a nightclub I always try and get them horny enough so they want to f** but it hardly ever works and i usually only get a hookup.

I will usually say something along the lines of "Hey i'm heading out do you want to come hang out at mine?"

I get the feeling that most girls won't ever do this no matter how good you are but maybe i am going about it the wrong way. Need help guys

Mmmh i don't really got much XP in this but maybe you can change you're lines more like:

Hey come lets go to my place.

Instead of

Wanna come and hang out at my place.

You don't give her a qeustion, but more of a order...

Have some drinks ready at your place.

Invite her back for an after party.

Amazing how well this works.

You've got to avoid implying sex as the reason to come back to yours. By saying "come back to mine" without a reason is implying "come back for sex". 'Most' girls won't want to feel 'easy' by agreeing to come back.

Have an interesting item at yours, like a fish tank or a guitar, during conversation with her, slip this interesting item into your routine then at the end of the night...

"Hey, wanna come see my fish? Jaws and Nemo have starting fighting a lot recently in the tank, wanna go watch them have a scrap?! We can place bets on who's gonna win"...etc

"Hey, come back to mine and i'll teach you a few chords/that song you love on the guitar"...etc

I go about trying to pull a girl back to my place in a couple different ways- and it really depends on the logistics. I.E. Did she come with friends, and if she did- did she drive them all? Does she work in the morning? Etc.

It's important to make sure that these things are clear because it's just a waste of time trying to pull this girl home with you when she drove five of her friends.

A go to of mine is to talk about a particular actor, or movie in the conversation- and if she likes that particular actor or movie I'll see if she wants to come back to the house to watch a movie- maybe smoke some Hookah.

You need to give the girl plauseable deniability. Meaning, give her reasons why she's coming over other than sex. She knows it's going to happen, she just doesn't want to feel like a slut.

Hope that helps.

IMO it doesn't matter what you say. You both know exactly what you mean by inviting her back to your place after the club (regardless of your explanation).

If you've gamed her well enough all night, I find that most girls ARE willing to come home with you. Not all, but most.

Thanks guys my line could be better but 2surgical your right I never game her enough and I've realised its because I'm always too drunk e.g. last week fucked up badly won't get into details. Gonna try drink less tomorrow night at my mates 21st.