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Ok imagine if a girl has a type, let's say she only goes for 'bad-boy' types, skinheads, tattoos...etc and a guy comes along trying to game her who's an 'indie boy' for example. Could he still close her? Also the other way about a bad boy trying to game a girl that likes indie boys?
I'm under the firm belief that this wouldn't be possible. Physically, she knows what she wants, and no amount of game could change that.
I defer to one of the biggest pointers Mystery makes, time and time again:
ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE.
Case in point.
Let's say we have a girl whos into "Bad Boys". 2 Guys approach her, one is a "Bad Boy" and one is a "Corporate, Suit and Tie" Guy.
1. The Corporate Guy opens solid, runs a solid game, and number closes.
2. The Bad Boy opens solid, has a weak game, and gets shut out.
Although I'm illustrating a point, this is a completely concievable scenario. When you calibrate yourself to be the "type" of the guy your target is looking for, all you are doing is earning "brownie points". If you stumble on your game a bit or have a weak open, your target will be more forgiving. However, just because you are her type doesn't mean she's going to give you her number. As a corollary,
just because you AREN'T her type, doesn't mean she WON'T give you her number. _________________
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