I just realized that this is kind of a sticking point for me. I can open and hold a set engaged for 15 plus minutes but.. after I open whether I pick up is somewhat random. Im good looking, confident and do many things that can be seen as DHV (extreme sports, kickboxing, uni, I tell good stories and many others that I cant think of now).

Basically, girls get attracted to what I just said enought of the time that I still pick up but since I just moved to australia im finding it a lot harder since sets generally either lock me out or have a conversation with me for sometime without attraction. Basically, whats a good method to DHV right after opening?

SPAM, the best thing i found was to open just about every set in the bar without hesitation and eventually this will show confidence so that the later sets will be attracted but I have to be in the right mood for this and I need to invest a good couple of hours to do it.

Mood shouldn't be your boundary, it should be your motivation, talk about your country and how shitty/fucking awesome it is, thats a really DHV and cocky thing to talk about and it really relates to how you feel

good luck

Fender43

Mood shouldn't be your boundary, it should be your motivation, talk about your country and how shitty/fucking awesome it is, thats a really DHV and cocky thing to talk about and it really relates to how you feel

good luck

Fender43

I guess Im confused about how to make girls quickly attracted to you without them disqualifying you after the initial impact form the opener has worn off. I get girls talking to me to be poilite (or not) and they simply leave after the first 10min of conversation. If a girl is actually attracted to me and gives IOIs then I know what to do, its just that getting to this stage is somewhat hit and miss.