Another big sticking point for me are...boyfriends...seriously about 60-70% of girls I approached had BFs...to make matters worse the best 5-10% of girls I approached ALL had bfs...and this isn't the I have a bf bullshit. I actually got to know each one of these 5-10% of bfs personally(just to clear things out for myself)+ I've seen some of the remaining 50% of girls with their afc bfs...

I stricktly believe that using bf destroyers is immoral, (although I was going to do it twice, but stopped myself halfway) unless the guy is a real jerk(treats her really badly)

fuck this is so annoying. It seems like wherever I go I'm a little late. I'll keep approaching, but at this point I just want to get a gf and be able to concentrate on other aspects of my life(e.g. studdy, work, break-dance, saxaphone;)

Any opinions on what the hell should I do?

She can make up her own mind. If she would rather be with you then so be it. All's fair in love and war.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

I have the same moral issues that you have. I would not want someone to try to bf destroy me if I were in a relationship, so I dont do it to others. That used to be my belief until I noticed that every woman usually deserves (and is looking for) better.

I think that every woman should be treated amazingly and should be with someone who can make her feel really happy like i can make her feel.

So, I continue with the seduction even if she has a bf because i think that if the bf is worthy and amazing, my seduction will not work.

Basically, A woman will go elsewhere if she is presented with a better option. Give her that better option. There is nothing wrong with that. If a real man had her, he would value their relationship by treating her like she wants to, like you should strive to do.

On a sidenote, I think that you run into this problem consistantly because the girls that you are attracted to may have a quality that makes them have a boyfriend. Consider that. Maybe that is what attracts you so much to them, that they are taken. Possibly...

It is funny because I seldom run into a girl that I am picking up who tells me that she has a boyfriend. I think that even if they do have a bf, I dont ask and they clearly wanna know more about me, so they justify it as "who cares I will not say I have a bf."

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