Hi Guys,

Brief Intro

Long story short, I’ve been trying out game since my last LTR broke up a year ago. With varied success and occasional closes of all kinds, but no real consistency.
I mainly got into it through reading Neil Strauss and flirted with his Mystery/Style method.

Most of the Guys I sarge/talk game with have got into RSD stuff, so I’ve recently had a look at some of the Tyler Durden blueprint videos.

I like to keep an open mind and this seems to make sense to me (Good call Stevie!).

This has made me look closer at my “Inner” game

So this year I want to push my game into the next level and I realise I have two sticking points.

1) Approach Anxiety

I am working on this by using my innate stinginess which I have found counterbalances my fear of rejection (just).

I give one of my wings (Dave) a tenner and he only gives it back when I open a valid set.
It seemed to work last night (after a good dig in the ribs from my other wing Smithy!) and I plan to improve this gradually, by giving him two tenners next time we go sarging and then three the next time etc etc

2) Abundance

Now this is what my question is about.
I get the theory and I can see why it works

“Blokes who have loads of women and are getting loads of sex are more attractive to women”

I’ve seen this in my own experience when in relationships and “Unattainable”

And I realise my barren periods coincide with the periods when I’m feeling lonely and generally horny, in short I really WANT to pull and this obviously translates to women. Neediness.

(To quote “The Tao of Steve”, “A woman can spell an agenda like shit on a shoe”)

The question is

“How do you give off the vibe of abundance / indifference when you AREN’T getting any?”

I mean the biological urge is pretty frickin strong, how do you just “not give a shit”?

Appreciate any suggestions

Cheers

Scamp

Because you're worrying too fucking much.

No need to pay attention to all these chicks, the more you try to attain abundance the harder it actually is. Really, do your own thing, hobbies, try to fit in as much time with your friends as possible, do stupid shit with your friends, and just have a lot of fun. Because someone with a lot of girls don't try to get much more, they just spend their time having fun.

All extra free time = Women!

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