Hi, new at the game, but have been reading up quite a bit.

My problem is k-closing. I can't seem to do it. I can initiate, get number, kino (to a certain extent) I can tell she is literally begging me to k-close. but for some stupid reason I hold back?

Am I looking for her to ok it before I do it so I don't get rejected?

The long(er) version.

Went out with girl for lunch with some friends. All throughout lunch she was touching my face, my hands, arm. Even under the table we were brushing our legs. I know this is all IOI's and she is literally begging me. (it gets worse).

Group splits up, I walk her to her car and she asks me to sit in to warm up as its pretty cold outside (I know, I know....and i still didnt do it).

We sit for around 10 mins with crap chatter and listening to her crap music, a couple of times we make prolonged eye contact and i keep thinking do it now do it now, but I STILL FUCKING DONT DO IT?!

I'm also ashamed to say, I just say something along the lines of 'right im off, catch you later' and she still says 'if your stuck at coursework, you could always come to a coffee shop near my town and study with me'

can anyone mindfuck me out of my problem?!

Everything is in place and i keep kicking myself to the chances i missed.
or should i just live of internet porn for the rest of my life (the girls are easier)

Thanks for your help.

This may sound cheesy, but Mystery's Kiss Gambit is perfect for someone in your position, simply ask:

"Do you want to kiss me?"

Now, depending on her answers

"I don't know/maybe" You say "Lets find out, come here"

"Not Here" You Say "I understand"

"No" You say "I didn't say you could, you look like you have something on your mind"

"Yes" do you need me to tell you what to do?


btw, have you ever kissed before? The first one will always be hard due to the anxiety of getting it right, but theres no true right way to do it

I should add that this is how I have done it, and still do, I like it, you'd be suprised of the fact that I've never had a No with it, everything sounds good though.

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Thanks for the reply.

I have kissed before and i'm ok with kissing, its just the mental thing of actually doing it that is holding me back

That does seem like a sensible gambit as it has outs. I have read it before but it never came to mind at the time.

I think i'll take her up on the coffee next week and try it out.

Thanks for your help.

Out of curiosity How many k-close scenarios do you keep in mind ?

Me personally, I have a load of scenarios, I sorta specialise in K-Closes, or at least try to lol I get that "Right time" feeling now instinctivly, the more you do it, the easier it gets

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If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got.

Live for the Moment, Never see a Chance you didn't take!

another quick Q, if you would oblige.

Would you kino a girl everytime you meet her?
(in my case, the next meet, start kino all over again and then kiss ?)

Thanks

Definatly, start with a hug most girls do that anyway, it's all about escalation and just be playful with her

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To Succeed You Have to Stop being Ordinary and Start being Legend...Wait For It....Dary!!!

If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got.

Live for the Moment, Never see a Chance you didn't take!