Hello fellows,

Basically, I’m ashamed of myself. I’ve been in this game for a while now and I’m quite good at it. Anyhow, I never had to work a lot to get the girl I want because I am good looking so I barely have to do anything. I’ve had crazy nights where I made out with more than 6 different women’s and denied even more. My problem: THE girl… For whatever reason, I can’t do anything with her even though I know she’s interested. With that girl, I’m an f*cking wussy. This pisses me off so much I can’t stop thinking about it. I knew her for about 5 months now but didn’t see her lot (maybe 10 times with friends) because she lives in another city. She keeps texting me saying she misses me and all, which I think is a good indicator.

Seriously, I could make up the best plan ever to close with her and it couldn’t work I don’t know why. I’ve two major chances to close with her: I drove her back home, said I needed to use her bathroom, but nothing happened…It just seemed awkward. 2: I drove her back to my place, slept with her but did not do anything… I don’t need anyone to tell me how I failed or what not, I am totally aware of it!

I have seriously no idea what I should do with that… I don’t have that problem with anybody else. Maybe it’s the fact that she is shy that f*ck me up. Seems like the only time she express her feeling is on texts, which sucks.

So here it is, tell me something... Anything!

MrMatt

What I would do (this isn't for most people as I have become completely immune to rejection) is just to ask her whats going on. Say something about how she seems different from most girls because you can't read her and you're interested to know if she is in to you at all.

If you don't think that would work, there are 2 real options. First is to escalate gradually (progressively more kino, kiss her on the top of the head, cheek etc.) But the most important thing is to not let yourself become obsessed with one girl, never get one-itis. If you think this has any chance of happening then the last option is to cut off all contact, fuck 12 other girls, then come back.

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