Hey guys, so I visited a fairly small venue last night in downtown Toronto and the night really brought one of my sticking points to light. As I walked in and checked my coat I noticed an older woman who looked out of place with a younger girl at the bar waiting to get a drink. I approached the older one and used the hair opener I always use (I have the pauly D hairstyle) telling them that I went out as him for halloween but my friends kept telling me that the style suits me and I've kept it ever since and wanted to know what the thought of it. I eventually got her number and told her my friends were waiting, she seductively winked at me and walked for a second turned her head back and said see you on the dance floor. Eventually we bumped into each other, we started dancing and eventually made out - after a good 20 minutes of basically having sex on the dance floor she asked me to join her for a smoke. We went outside on the patio and talked for a bit and this is where things went downhill. One of her friends noticed her and joined us and my friends happened to run into me by fluke. We introduced each other and eventually the conversation totally hit a dead end. I decided to pull the plug before it really turned into a trainwreck and me and my friends went to the washroom.

I bumped into her 4 more times that night, first time I did ok and asked her playfully if shes stalking me. The other few times I walked past and tried not to notice her. I'm really not sure how to handle this at all, anyone ever encounter this situation. Usually the venues I go to are huge and I don't have any issues like this.