So I've pretty much mastered getting a girl into interest mode, and building up her tension and all that until shes about to burst but the heistation and such is all there still. I need a way to make her act on it.

I can give the metaphor of "shes right next to the cliff, i just need to find out how to give her a tiny push" or "the dam is filled with water, all i need is to find out how to break a tiny crack in it and the rest will fall down". I think it must be the way I'm going about getting her to go for it.

Like for instance: i've been texting this girl i know for a WHILE. I could tell everything in her was saying "go on a date with this guy"...simply because i patiently built up that tension to begin with. But whenever i ask her its like she closes off, like the tension is still there, but instead of used to fuel the decision to go with me, it just kinda troubles her. I think i need a way to pair the feeling with the decision to go with me to dinner but i dont know how to go about it. What do i have to say to pull that last piece from out under her and get that "jenga!" moment?

p.s. same thing is my sticking point for sex, etc that needs the release of all that tension. this should probably be answered by an experienced pua that knows what theyre talking about, no offense but "i dont know, sorry" is really annoying to put on posts asking for help haha