Ok got the girl in my bed last night....got LMR. I was switching between throwing her around on my bed to (gentle kissing, hair pulling, stroking her neck, very light touches, telling her she can't handle it, and saying other shit) bottom line as soon as I started going for clothes removal and being aggressive while throwing her around she kept saying DON"T and sorta physically pulling away my hand, but maintaining arousal levels. I could see that she was enjoying it and didn't wanna leave, however after 10-15 minutes of light touches to throwing her on my bed it ended with me saying "it doesn't have to happen tonight, but I still very much wanna fuck you later". she accepted it and then we watched soccer highlights and went to bed and slept till 1 in the afternoon. SOME HELP on LMR?

You did something right by not forcing the situation. LMR is huge to deal with and is mostly taken care of before sexual activity. You need trust and comfort for girls who are not looking just to fuck, obviously, but there could be more to it than that.

She might have been on her period, or have...something she might want to tell you about.

We all have to overcome LMR, and the bedroom is the WRONG place for it. At a club, if meet a girl and we go back to her house, we both know it's happening before we get there.

On the other hand, when I am at a club and a woman is hesitant about keeping the good time going, and she is uncomfortable with the idea of going back to her place or mine, then THAT IS ALSO LMR.

It's just slut defense. She doesn't want to be used.

The only times I have faced LMR are on an unplanned hookup, in which a very close platonic friend butted up against me in bed. And I MUST agree, fully hooking up would not have been the best idea.

Another time was a girl who resisted completely the first night and she said she just "couldn't." I was really taken back by this until a few nights later she came out that she had an STD.

LMR can come at many angles and is best avoided before the bedroom. Just try not to get blue balls.

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So what plan of action do I take!? Should I just give her more time and wait? Should I call her and wait for her to come over. The thing is that she purposely drove for over an hour and only got to my place at 9 pm and brought over movies and by the time that was done it was around 2:30 a.m. so I just said "look it's late and snowing, just stay here and sleep". She had no problem with it and clearly knew what she was signing up for. I mean come-on I wasn't gonna play scrabble with her so she is being a fucking tease and that pissed me off big time! I didn't show my frustration, and didn't feel very angry till after she left the next day. anyways I'm thinking of talking to her and 'defining' where this currently stands and based on what she says, telling her that "since she doesn't think this is at all serious and we're just dating" ,so u'd be ok if I dated another girl". I legitimately have 2 girls, (a cheerleader and a model) who'm I've spent time with and agreed to go out on a date with me this week! soo I want to make her value drop so she knows I'm not chasing her but want her. However, I have other alternatives, and she needs to know that! Anyways what do you think about that?

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I am dating a girl, we met up and then was 1 meeting and then second, not planned. I was searching how to lay here and this is perfect for my purposes! She mentioned she doesn't like to share so I got the point but I have to speed things up.

So for the LMR, I would really like to write that I succeeded but I didn't. I have had it twice this month and the only thing I took from this was a BJ. But I know we have to freeze her out but it's so fucking hard when you are drunk and hard. I just can't switch to my logical thinking and keep screwing up. But I believe the remedium for LMR is to freeze her out, cut the pleasure off and leave it to her. But I admit, haven't field tested it yet.

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