Lets use last night as an example, I was in a club and didnt feel like opening any girls (just couldnt be assed). Was hanging out with quite a large group of friends both male and female, just happy to drink a bit and chill. There is one girl in the group I was interested in months ago (before I found PU), we hung out one time and she gave me lots of IOIs but nothing else happened. When everyone started dancing she wasnt, was just sitting there, I didnt feel like dancing either so I went to talk to her...:

I asked why she wasnt dancing and it was only intended as a passing comment on my way to the bathroom. However, she responded suprisingly positively to it and actually started a proper conversation. I sat down next to her after a few minutes and we talked for like half an hour. Conversation topics ranged from embarrasing stories to stuff that is completely sexual. For a while we played a game I like to play with male friends when we're bored and drinking (although recently ive been trying it with girls and found that it works unbelievably well). It works like this... You ask any question you want and the other person has to answer truthfully but... after them you have to answer the same question. I asked about her first kiss, she asked me how I lost my virginity.

I talked about how the other guys in the group we disapointed in me right now because they always expect me to pick up random girls and always ask me for advice (this is true since all the other guys are extremely AFC), she laughed and we talked about it for a while. Then she started reminiscing about one night when we were clubing together, and what I said to her that night.

she was kinoing the fuck out of me the whole conversation and i was doing the same. She was staring at me, and towards the end leaning in close. I tried triangular gazing and tried to move the conversation in a more sexual direction. Then at one point she just started talking about her ex, i tried to change the topic but she just got up and left in a few minutes...

I dont know what went wrong. She did say she would be at a party that Im throwing this weekend, so I guess I can redeem myself...