By reading that you probably think I'm talking about women.
But no, Im talking about me : /

Lately I haven't been getting aroused enough to keep things hard for myself. I could be alone with a girl making out and she could be all over my crotch and I get nothing. I could be all over her and I still dont get much. Even when I'm down on her I get nothing (though that could be because I'm concentrating). I dont know what the hell is going on.

The only way I get things up is when I'm getting a BJ. Then when I try and enter her things go down. WTF!


I think one of two things are happening.
1. I have a low sex drive
2. I'm cockblocking myself.

Advice would be much appreciated.


And for the record I am not gay. So for the love of god, dont bring that up.

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I get the same thing, it's called anxiety.

You're basically thinking too much.

I'm pretty sure you have no problem getting aroused when you're by yourself watching porn, am I right?

try not jacking off and do kegel excercises. works like a charm

Yo. Dont jerk off for 10 days and youll be right. This will also lift your testosterone a bit, so you will be more energetic (hopefully) in your interactions and approaches.

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Fucking performance anxiety. It happened to me with two girls. When it happened for the first time I was only thinking about this. Why am I not able to get it up, what's happening? The more you think about, the less likely you'll get hard. I finally got it up after relaxing a lot. The second time it happened, I knew what it was so I just stopped thinking about it and it worked. The problem with this shit is that it haunts you. You always think about it and when you're with a girl you're like : will I be able to get it up? That's bad. Try just not thinking about it as if it didn't matter.

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