Aright so Im talking to this girl and things are going pretty good until I neg her to lower her value and then she returns with another Neg and i do the same. Now normally i know this is supposed to be called flirting but then she started to get defensive and so did I.

This isnt the first time this happens to me. negging leads me to arguements and then to failure. I know the concept of the bitch shield and how to respond And I do know the whole throw and go neg, but there are cases where these girls dont like to be negged at all and are so full of themselves. It's almost like they would kill to keep their value high and they are always very aware of it.

I'm pretty lost on this one and not sure where to go with it. ANY IDEAS!??

Are you negging or are you insulting her?
What are some examples of your negs?
Remember a neg is a qualifier, not an insult, don't cross the line and be insulting..

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Ive run into that to, whats worked for me is when you neg keep it light but heavy enough that it effects them, and if they neg you back then, you can use the cocky-funny method and turn what they neg you with into a bonus for you further dcreasing there value but also increasing yours. i dont know if that made since

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There's a fine line between a backhanded compliment, and a downright insult.

A neg is really just complementing something that people wouldn't like, would find weird, would find gross, etc. For example, "You have ugly hair. But I like it. So, I guess you could say I like ugly hair."

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