Lately I have been very effective and natural at just aquiring attraction and phone numbers- leading to day 2 bedroom scenarios. Literally, the FIRST night I hang out with the past few girls I've gotten, it always ends up sleeping together... but without a unique aspect- no sexual realtion.

Now these girls are dressing down to bedroom attire and sharing a bed with me for the entire night, yet making it a point it needs to 'go slow' or nothing's happening tonight. One of them I actually left within minutes of realizing this, even though I knew that would ruin future chances.

Obviously I need to improve my same-night closing, since sex is my main focus at the moment (being 22 and single male.)

But I'd like thoughts from y'all!

Thanks

stop being so nice. if you got a girl over your house at night you need to be moving towards sex. if she refuses, take her home. but don`t do it in a way to suggest you are punishing her. if she wont leave or tries to play the too drunk/tired game, DO NOT sleep in the same bed with her. (in this case you are punishing her) take the loss, sleep on the couch. then kick her out in the morning and delete her number.

Are you kino escalating using push-pull?

What does that mean?

It means kino escalating, then pulling away, then escalating further, then pushing her away, then re-engaging and escalating more, then dropping off again. What this does is make her WANT you to keep re-engaging every time, making her not only comfortable with you touching her, but actually desiring you to do it more and more.

When you get her back to your place, it's great to say things like "ok let's swing by mine so I can lend you that DVD we were talking about, but then you gotta go because I have to up early" or even "ok don't get any ideas because I don't sleep with random girls I just met" as you're walking in. This creates the frame that she's pursuing you for sex.

Then you just keep escalating. The final piece in the puzzle is the freeze out for LMR. Basically you're kissing, touching, then you take some clothes off, then kissing some more, and then she says "I'm not sleeping with you" or "no, we should stop" just be like, "ok" totally expressionless, and then go over, grab your laptop and change the music or show her a funny video, then start right up again and keep escalating. Rinse and repeat until your dick is in her. Believe me, this works. If you're patient and remain completely calm, don't pout or get mad, eventually she'll submit. I've done 6-8 freeze outs with one girl before we finally had sex, but I got there. Of course, if you use the lines above and use push-pull correctly, you'd have less trouble with LMR because the frame will be her chasing you, not you pushing for sex.

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