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I usually try to engage all the girls in flirty banter before focusing on one girl. Demonstrate to all of them that you're a fun-loving, humorous and sexual individual, and then when you determine that one of the girls in interested in you, you don't have to make it so obvious that you're gaming her specifically.
What I mean is this--you're making light-hearted sexual jokes to everyone, but you're getting solid IOIs from one of them, so when you make a joke directed at HER, you hold eye contact a little longer and give her a little smile.
That way, it's not as obvious as, "oh well he's only making flirty jokes towards her." The actual attraction, as conveyed by eye contact and body language, is "under the table" so to speak. And to be honest, that turns girls on, to know that only you and she know what's happening, even though it's seemingly on display for everyone to see. It's a special bond that you and she share, so later when you isolate her, that's when you can pull out the heavy game and eventually close.
Just my AFC opinion but hopefully you found it useful/interesting.
I absouletly love this one. Great comment, just saw it today, and we can call it a part of stealth seduction, though Gambler says nothing about it. I've done this thing, and it works. Before I got into relationship with my current gf, we were mostly in groups, and though I am always making flirty jokes with girls, teasing and everything, eye contact was crucial to make her feel more attracted to me than her friends, and show some interest. Great comment once more, don't be so modest
