| Strange that you don't have difficulties in opening a 1 to 1 set, but that you have them when opening a group.
Sometimes a group is easier to have conversation, because if one of the group don't know anything what to say, there is always a chance that someone does.
And often, a girl alone is on her way. A group is mostly idle.
Secondly, you can talk about anything, as long as it does not show neediness, as it does not insult them, as it does not DLV you, as it does not bore them because your story is too long or you're talking about your favorite teddybear.
So be spontaneous at the beginning and with transitions. Ask her if she comes more often to the bar you are in. Tell her that your sister has the same dress as her and ask her about it, etc.
Maybe your still a bit uncomfortable about opening, but you get more confident by opening more and more, as you get used to it.
And the more you get confident and comfortable around opening, the better the responses of the targets will be.
Secondly, there is a golden rule, which says that you should never show interest until she shows you interest first. So if she gave you an IOI (sign of interest) like she touches you, she laughs with your jokes, she becomes more needy and such, then you should never worry about you hitting on her, and about what other people might say or think of it. If a girl shows interest or that hse wants you, then it's only natural that you hit on her.
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