I tried this last night and it worked to a degree but I got out of my depth.

One was a women (1) I knew for a while and am friends with.
The other was a HB (2) I had never met before but opened me.

I was dancing with woman 1 and the rest of my friends and got opened by women 2. I am quite flirty when out because I have got in to that mentality and preceed to opener her. Initiated contacted, Kino and triangular gazed and said there would be an afterparty (for you know what) and she said she was up for it.

I did this because I wanted some more experience and I knew it would cause jealousy with women 1. We are friends but have never done anything although it obvious there is tension but I kinda felt women 2 was hotter.

Soon after I was torn as both were interested and wanting me. The social proof and jealousy had worked but I was getting pulled away by women 1. I whispered in her ear "look what you could have had'' and spoke to women 2 again.

I was difficult to fully game her because women 1 and my friends were looking at me and I don't have a huge amount of confidence in gaming.

After the club closed. Women 1 went away in mood and was clearly upset. I left women 2 with my friends speaking and went after women 1 to clear the air.
She was not happy and went for some food and sat beside some other guys while I waited outside like an idiot. I went to back to find my friends but the women 2 had gone after waiting. I sent women 1 a text saying don't try to play me. I will not respect you. You are just jealous, blah blah...''

But I had blown it. My greed had got in the way of getting laid. I realise chasing was an AFC thing to do but I had been working on her for months and was not wanting to through it away by going off with someone right under nose after she came to the club initially to see me.

Any ideas?
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What should I do next as with a cooling off period?

Thanks

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Gaming is a part of life! I realise that now! It affects almost everything you do...

I like your initiative.

I love gaming more than one female at the same time and at the same place.

Being quick, utilizing distance and thinking two steps ahead is key.


That being said, you were doing too much.

You were with 1 and 2 opened you.

You responded but then shitted on 1.

You already HAD her and could have left her with your friends (they're your safety net)

You didn't need to say "Look what you could have had".

She would have THOUGHT it if you dissappeared and isolated 2 to a location in the club and closed immediately.

Less words when you come back. Your friends (yes, they noticed) will do all of the talking for you.

Do not look at 1 AT ALL.

She will come to you.

And when she does, you actively flirt with her but DO NOT refer to 2.

Be straight up and close.


Be Brave.