Ok, normally I would'nt write one of these posts of desperation, but I really need some help on this one. So I have had 2 Day2's with this HB10, the most recent one had an aborted kclose. I was able to keep frame (I think) by saying "You wish you were that lucky" in a cocky way after she turned her head away. She replied with a sarcastic "Ha HA".
Anyways I found out she likes to work with kids so I tried to build some comfort with her online. We get onto the subject of what we were doing that week. She is babysitting some kids. I tell a DHV story of how me and my friend helped a kid out a few weeks ago. After the story she says "cool" I ask her if she had any cool stories from the kids she was babysitting. Conversation is as follows:
11:32pmHer: the kids I am babysitting right now are asleep
11:35pmFreedom:Ohh...well then I had better type quieter.
Here is where I think I come on too strong
Quote:
11:36pmFreedom:Would you rather have a boy or a girl?
11:37pmHer:what do you mean?
11:38pmFreedom:Well since you like being around kids, if you were to have one of your own, would you rather it be a boy or a girl?
11:41pmHer: ok just making sure thats what you were asking.I actually want twins one of each. I dont think I would prefer a girl or a boy really either one is fine with me
11:42pm Freedom:Why is that?
11:44pmHer:I just love kids. I would with all ages and yeah I have no reason to want one over the other
Here is where I think I she is going for the friendbox
Quote:
12:00amFreedom:I'm glad your unbiased.
12:00amHer:thanks.
what do you want?
12:02amFreedom:I want to go to bed. TTY
Now the reason I say this is because this last spring, a women online asked me a similar question after a conversation, I responded and got friendboxed
I think she is trying to get me to show my hand so that she has the power to possibly terminate the approach.
Right now I am planning on a communication blackout with her.No chat, no text, no nothing until I can figure out how to deal with this. If she presses the question, I will try to keep her guessing as much as possible (I got her interested in me by projecting myself as mysterious so I could pull it off). She goes to this dance place regularly so I know where to find her, and I can pull off some good kino/rapport with her in person.
I can give more details on the previous Day2's if needed. I am more the welcome to PM.
I DON'T WANT TO GET FRIENDBOXED!!! WHAT DO I DO?!?
CHAT
She didn't ask about the previous convo, so it looks like it worked. Whew! Dodged a bullet on that one!