I got a HB9's number a ways back and we went out a couple times (approx. 5 hrs worth of time) Great time out, played the 'questions game', which lead to sexually explicit questions and built lots of sexual tension. DHV by doing the 'cube routine', second time around had her at my place for some wine and a movie. I pulled an AFC move and didn't hit on her when I should have. There was a lot of attraction initally, but due to vacations and the holiday season, we had lost touch.

I do this with girls who I haven't gone out with in a while. I text her a message, about how she is the worst swimmer ever, and that my little neice can swim better than her. I had a great time the other night, and I will remember to bring an extra pair of shorts next time.... obviously I have not gone out with this girl, but they usually responds wondering what's wrong with me or wtf??, or wrong girl. Then I message back 'oooops wrong (whatever her name is)' This usually triggers girls to wonder why they stopped hangin out with a guy, who seems to be having so much fun with another girl.

After I text this to her, she responded back and I immediately took the texting to a sexual place. She is a hairstylist and is doing my hair for me. I told her I was coming to see her on Wednesday, which she was not aware of at the time. I responded back telling her 'don't you remember, you said you were gonna take me out, get me drunk, and have your way with me after'... after some more texting back and forth, she suggested that we grab a drink after my hair appointment that evening.

This is where I need some advice. I do not want to waste anytime with this girl at a restaurant and 'just have drinks'. Do I tell her that we should head back to my place for a great bottle of red wine I just picked up and kino escalate from there. She has been to my place before and should be comfortable with this. or go to a bar and try and escalate there?

Any suggestions on this would be very helpful.

Doesn't this response you get speak for itself? It does to me, it's saying "stop doing what you are doing and think of a different approach." You need to display value in yourself and by acting like an idiot with the wrong number you are dramatically lowering it. Personally, what I would've done is take a less intimidating approach such as "I was just about to text my friend when I realised we havent talked in a while.. missed me?" Forget the C&F approach, it's not working.

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