Guys! I'm stuck, I don't know what to do next! I've been trying this for 3 years adn I still don't have the results I want. Suggestions?

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It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.
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what are you struggeling at? approaching, closing???? are u good looking...? we need more infos!

you have to think positive speak and act positive,have a look at your mates are they making you stronger or weaker, people are attracted to happy people by the way dont delay happiness if you are not happy now you will never be, your number 1 priority is to feel good and be happy now because its the only present moment that excits as you look after yourself your energy goes up and people will flock to you because you became very attractive

the key is confidence! try bungee jumping or skydiving... iuf you radiate confidence into the enviroment thats sexy!

Yes, what are your sticking points? Opening, attracting, locking-in? In order to help you we need to know where you are having problems.

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If you can't attract a woman you are, by definition sterile" ~Mystery

Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude."
Zig Ziglar

To win you have to risk loss.
Jean-Claude Killy

Guys, that's the problem, I really don't know what my sticking point is anymore. It's confusing as fuck. Some nights I'll go out and it'll be on, and I'll number close and k-close, and get a day2. Other nights, I'll go out and I'll just totally bomb. So maybe my sticking point is consistency.

I think another sticking point is lack of original material. Like yes, I use original DHV material, but I must have used certain common community routines hundreds, if not thousands of time.

Also, I have a big issue with mixed sets. I don't know what it is, I'm a) afraid to open them and b) when I do open them they usually don't go that well.

Another sticking point is that some clubs I go to are just SO LOUD. So it's hard for me to communicate at all, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Also, I get a lot of flakes.

What to do?!

P.S. I'm impressed with the quick replies on this forum

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It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.
—Albert Einstein