This freeze out method can only work when the girl knows you interested in more than just friendship. Most effective when she's trying to make BS excuses for just wanting to maintain the friendship.
1st off Do not let yourself slip into the roll of nice guy you'll land right back into the friend zone. Another important thing is you do not comfort her at all. Be busy if she wants to hang out you decline her offer and don't try to re-schedule with her either. Stop returning her phone calls, I don't care if she calls 3 times in a row or leaves a message do not call her back, (this includes texts messages). When you see her in person and she ask if you got her messages you say, “yeah I got it, I’ve been pretty busy lately". Now she's going to ask question's to test like are you mad at me? (Don't show angry emotions) in a Just casually say, "No I just got a lot of things going on right now I'll catch you later ok."
Ok this is a fact Women do not like being ignored you'll literally will drive them insane they will think about you constantly because its never happened to them and they won’t know what to do.
The way to finally ended this is when she becomes too desperate to hang out with you. The way to test her desperation level when She(not you) ask can you see or hang out. You tell her the only this day and time will work for you…. pick and odd like 9pm or 10pm (it needs to be a time that’s inconvenient and most people just won’t be just coming over to hang out). She'll agree to it (she simply won’t have a choice she might not ever get the chance again) when she gets to your place time to take care of business.
Finally don't reveal your true intentions to her
DO NOT EVER EVER tell her "I was acting like this way just to get you" you’ll lose everything you worked for and she'll instanly lose all attraction for you.
LAST THING: Anyone who attempts this freeze out method without 1st letting the girl know your sexually interested in being more than friends either verbally or physically, all it will show is that weak and cowardly and you’ll be doing without a real cause and this will Not work for you.
Explanation of the LAST THING summarized by Visionsxxxxxx
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If you do NOT convey that you want her sexually before freezing her out, she will simply see you as a friend that is 'deserting' her, this will not create attraction but rather upset her in a friend-to-friend kind of way. (and yes you will remain in the friend zone)
If you DO convey that you want her sexually before freezing her out, she will then start getting mixed messages about whether you really want her or not, but more importantly, WHY you want her...you want her to be thinking the following...'hes just told me he wants me...and now he's too busy for me...does he really want me?? I want to know!'...then for the WHY he wants me... 'does he want me just for sex? does he want me for a quick fling? does he ACTUALLY like me in that way?'. The very fact that she cannot read what you are after makes you a challenge, which creates attraction. Also, the fact that you are conveying that you're just too busy to hang with her right now conveys UNneedyness which once again creates attraction. My point is, once you have got her wondering about the above thoughts...you are out of the friend zone...because no-one 'wonders' about their friends in that way...and freezing her out after conveying you want her sexually...will FORCE her to think about you in that way."
Guys don’t be weak when performing this freeze out don’t let her tears faze you, this process needs to go on for a few weeks to let her emotions come to a boiling point. The feeling of loss is more powerful than you can imagine.
Be active don’t be sitting in your room constantly trying to think of ways to freeze her out. Hang out with your guy friends hang out with other women(but don’t be purposely showboating them in front of her… but if she just happens to see you with them when that benefits you ….)
This has been tested out by me ( Reo), yes I’ve been put into the friend-zone a time or 2 after spilling my guts to a girl even after kissing a girl(whom I was friends with for a long time). Now I’m not saying everyone will get the same results I did. However this technique is worth a shot.