Alright, here's a scenario:

You number close an HB, and then when you call her sometime during the following days you try to set up a meet and she ends up being busy. At this point, do you try to set up another time? (Probably not) Do you call her another time and try to hang out? Do you wait for her to get in touch with you? Do you hope that you run into each other at the bar or somewhere and then talk about getting together another time? Do you just count it as a loss?

Opinions?

im gaming a dancing instructor on the side right now, and she is busy 24/7. i know its no shit test cause we only talk late at night after her work. weve openly talked about sex with each other, so i know she wants it. i even accidentally got her horny over aim one time. oops, my bad

just ask a few times, tell her your free days, but keep conversation with her. i know i have at leats a bj close with mine, so i dont feel like im being persistent since we both know whats up. i just hope i can help. haha.

If a girl says "I'm busy." You say "When you're free, call me." or set up a date a couple days in advance, like "My friends and I are going to a concert on Saturday, you'll come with me right?"

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All's fair in love and war.

Like Mystery says number closes don't mean a thing unless you've time-bridged another meet. People (including myself) place too much emphasis on getting a hot girl's number and when I have done, I feel like I'm walking on air!

No here's the problem, you can't fuck a phone number, lol!

Any which way mate, perseverance is the key! I kiss-closed an intern at work last Friday but I had to do some serious "chasing". I think the trick is even though you know you're chasing them like a bastard...you don't want to give the impression that you're chasing them.

I think the worst thing you can do is let a trail go cold unless she explicitly says, "Leave me alone". What I've done is text them random stuff from time to time. Female opinion openers about getting flowers for an ex-gf.

You need to find a way of differentiating yourself from every other AFC in her life that's texting her which means working the "pre-selection", "having better things to do" and "fun & interesting" card a bit more.

Keep at it is my advice mate! No guts, no glory as someone once said. Good luck