Hi all,

My problem is that I seem to be opened a lot by different sets, I just don't know how to make use of that. I always end up pulling the AFC questions; "Where do u study?" etc.. How do i escalate from them just "talking" to me in a ques to actually locking in with them? I've tried some interesting stories and best friends test usually goes well but they always end up buggering off or something.. I can't seem to make them actually be interested in me after the first minute.. Any help would be appreciated!

Another question I have relates to something that happened to me yesterday.. I decided to direct-game this HB8.5 ..and i got a good response from her.. well from her friends who were pushing her to me.. she was really shy and wasn't willing to go dance if her friends didn't come along.. they ended up discussing/arguing over it for a while with her friends telling her to go without them.. And I ended up standing there waiting pretty much.. which I thought looked needy.. so i eject saying something like "Alright.. well if u change ur mind come find me.. im over there" and walk off (AFCCCC). Now that I think back, its a shame cause the girl was hott and had this cute shy thing goin for her.. what would you have done?

Thanks boys,
Stine

With the HB that you wanted to dance with, I would have gamed her some more. If her friends were pushing her to go dance with you and she said no, she either didn't want to or didn't really like you enough quite yet. Also instead of direct game, use semi direct game. Take her hand (kino) and say lets go for a walk I have something cool to check out. If she does, thats another IOI, squeeze her hand (kino) and keep walking with confidence. Than use her to go on tour throughout the venue to build your pre-selection rep with other HB's. You can also ask her to play Murder, Marry, Shag Game. This will break the ice open even further with this HB whilst pumping your social status. Than without asking her for permission lead her to the dance floor. If she says no, who cares? Eject with something like, "I'm here to have fun tonight, I though you were more adventurous." Than go away and punish her behavior. Use your now pumped staus to open up more sets and repeat the process.