start having more fun. thats what it all comes down to. be more assertive and do exactly what you wanna do. (as long as youre not harming anyone or their property)
acting spontaneously will make your sarges more spontaneous. this will cause her to feel more swept away/drawn to you. this is a good thing
this is a huge part that people seem to forget. act like a natural. you dont necessarily have to use routines, but understand what creates attraction and find ways to get those responses. routines spread like wildfire. i recommend analyzing routines that do work and replicate the value parts but personalize it more. align your personality with your best self in all things. this makes you look at your self in a more positive light, but also makes what you say more congruent to your personality.