I guess this has happened only in short bursts, but recently a girl I took out a bunch of times has been having a lot of fun with me, I even brought her back to my house (roommate was in other room so sex was not so much an option) smoked pot, and watched a movie. "watched" a movie. We ended up making out, I told her to sit on my lap, fingered her... but no sex.

I don't mind the no sex part, I didn't want to push her (just because I'm inexperienced in that area). But the next times I called her on the phone, she seemed awkward and distant, I was busy, so I couldn't hang out with her for a couple days.

Next time I talked to her, she gave me the LJBF speech, I said: "hey, you still owe me coffee, I have no intentions of making any super-serious relationship, let's just have a good time and enjoy each other". She agreed to meet again, so I've got a chance of at least keeping her.

But did I creep her out, she seemed to enjoy me pleasuring her?

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Tyr

Dude, keep one thing in mind,,, whatever you did was not creepy. That's what guys and girls like doing.

At this point I think it's fair to say that you really don't know what changed things between you guys. Who cares? Don't worry about it.

If you want her,,, give her some space and come back later on your game. Maybe she has a problem with intimacy, maybe she's interested in some other guy.

If you think she's worth the drama and work,, go for it. Maybe try some different tactics next time.

If anything, you didnt go fast enough.

What do you think was up? Ya know, I'm probably worrying too much about this one, I'm gonna give it some time, if she's cool later, then we have something good.

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Tyr