I just dont know what works for me at this point some help or advice would be greatly appreciated. And please dont say social circle game Im a student and i work i dont have the time for that or even friends SPAM lol i have one friend i do pickup with once in awhile on weekends and he is like the only person I really hang with. But anyways please give me some advice or tips details appreciated.
I can't believe that i missed this. The things that i said before my have a very small part to play in your lack of results with women as of late, but actually those factors may just only be a bi-product of what i copied here from your post. Maybe you don't have enough going on other than school and work. In other-words..you have no social life. And as a result..you may be giving off a weird "i'm a loner with no friends or a social life" vibe to girls. In addition to that, your only extra-curricular activity is gaming girls. So all of these factors contribute to you becoming predictable and outcome dependent, which is probably why the girls don't stick around long enough for you to fuck them.
Don't make your social life all about girls. Actually do a couple of extra-curricular activities every week that you enjoy, that doesn't have anything to do with picking up girls. These could be activities like: volunteer work, community meetings, social work, going to the gym, jogging, biking, basketball, sports club, mixed martial arts class, join a church mission group, etc. Whatever it is, it doesn't matter..as long as the activity's primary focus isn't picking up women. Now you can still approach a couple of women while you're doing the activity, there's nothing wrong with that. Also..make more friends that you can hangout with. Sometimes your friends will have fun activities going on (if you don't) that you can join into. And i believe that if you make your social life more abundant outside of picking up women, it will help your vibe. And you can still pick up women on the side. Ironically, once you do that..women might start chasing you, as opposed to you chasing them all of the time.
My man... so you really do like inner game then huh?
So, everything G said was pretty much what I was going to say more or less. This sounds 100% like an inner game problem which means it's a 'life' problem, not a technique problem. It sounds like you're not happy with your life right now yet your desperately wanting women. The fact that you're not getting them increases that desperation because you feel that you 'should' be getting them given you've gotten them before. Challenges with women are often symptoms of larger problems in a guys life. And honestly, you pretty much hit the nail on the head when you mentioned your lack of social life.
Often, it's the very things we avoid or don't want to do that is the very thing we MUST do if we want the results. In this case, you must socialize and have some sort of a social life. There's no going about that, especially with you, because of the very fact you mentioned it. And it sounds like it's something you don't want to do, so you must do it... if you want results with women. You don't need to dedicate a shit ton of time, but you need do it. Find groups, hit up old friends, go to events, meetup.com, sports clubs, student clubs, martial arts club, go out yourself, anything, but you need to start engaging with people. Remember, women crave connection, and if your ability to connect with people has diminished because you don't have a social life anymore, how are you going to be able to give her that? It's not all about work and being fit. Besides, what does money even represent, status, right? Money represents status. But if you have no social life and no friends, what do you really have? Do you actually have any status? So, therefore, your social life is the area you must get back into in some form or another. Don't be lazy. Not having time is bullshit. You either make time or you don't. It's as simple as that.