What is the best way to deal with a one itis? I don't mean how to get over your One itis but how would you go about gaming your One Itis so you wouldnt fail like soooo many guys do.
Believe it or not I had a case of this the other day with a chick. I grown a bit attached to her and it felt fucking horrible. What I've done and been doing is just hitting the gym harder and going out and talking to other women. I replaced the time i gave her with other women and had some logic and reason talks to myself. It can be rough depending how much time you had with that person. Best advice I can give is occupy yourself with other women because you'll grow a interest in them and replace the one you had with her. I mean you can do other stuff to occupy time , but the reality is how can you relate going on with your guy friends or watching a movie or reading with thinking about a girl? You can't... least not well... So the best way is to go out and meet chicks. Just get off your ass and go out anywhere<<< and commit to meeting new people.
As a word of advice now that you had a "oneitus" don't ever let yourself get into that position again. Stay emotionally reserved until you are ready to commit to a relationship
AND LAST..... DO NOT CONTACT YOUR ONEITUS!!!!! FOR ANY REASON!!!!! DO NOT TRY TO MAKE HER JELOUS!!! NO CONTACT PERIOD. TREAT IT LIKE A BAD BREAKUP. IF SHE RESPONDS DO NOT RESPOND FOR AT LEAST A MONTH. IT'S TIME TO WORK ON YOU<