You'll never hear a woman say, "Disney World is so fun it just makes me want to get naked." Realize the fun is like an opener and it grabs a woman's attention. If you can't transition that fun into flirtation then you are nothing more than entertainment.
That makes a lot of sense and that's exactly how I felt. I'm compensating cause I used to suck at opening so I've been focused on that a lot and but am naturally better at connecting with one person as I'm quite introverted, so all I need to do is cap the excitement, add some spic here and there and go back to my roots.