I can confirm that she came at least twice so I doubt it's the sex. And remember, I only have this problem with the hotter uni girls. If sex were the problem, I imagine this would manifest across the board. Moreover, I've heard other uni guys with similar complaints.
Yeah, you're lumped in with guys who don't do it for them in bed (95% of dudes).
It sounds like you have a ton of positive things going for you. But women not blowing up your phone, not wanting to be with you a lot after fucking the first night is not good. They didn't like how you performed or they didn't like something about your body.
I do the same thing to women. If they are naggy that night, or have a body that's not my type, or suck in bed, I simply give them the "let's be friends" speech the next day. Some I ghost on. This is what you do when you are not attracted to a person
I'm not trying to be a dick. It sounds like you have everything it takes to get attractive women in your bed! But the sack game might not be up to snuff.
Are you leading, not asking? Don't ask what she wants next. Lead. Are you shoving her onto the bed, against a wall? Flipping her around the bed and having your way with her, not asking "Sarah, do you want doggy next?" Forcing her to her knees and leading her to your belt buckle/zipper instead of asking her to blow you? 9's and 10's are looking for intensity and passion...a guy that takes them out of NORMAL.
Are you speaking your mind while you fuck her? "You're so easy, Sarah. Fucking me on the first night? Such a dirty little whore". This shit drives them crazy.
Honesty and congruency continue from pickup into the bedroom. Game does not stop once her clothes are off.
I have found that the hotter a woman is, the more she likes sex rough and twisted. They are looking for very dominant men with dirty, twisted minds. Women are not precious, fragile flowers. They have craven fantasies of getting squirted on by a girl, getting fucked by two guys, getting loads shot on them by a group, fucking strangers in a club bathroom, etc.
I always establish sexual dominance early. Once you fuck a lot, they began to get sweet and sometimes want it softer, IE "making love". But it's very important to establish sexual dominance early to get those post-sex follow ups. 95% of men are not dominant in bed.
I've had girls on the first night look up at me with watery, horny eyes and say "holy fuck you are dominant" or "I love how dominant you are".
These women always want more.