My Plateau



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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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 Post subject: My Plateau
PostPosted: Sun Apr 03, 2016 1:32 pm 
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I feel as though I've just been through a bit of a plateau in the development of my game.

I can confidently say that I am very good with women and the work I've put in with pick up has given me much freedom. But over the last four months since new year I feel as though I have been in a similar place with not much advancement.

The position that I'm currently in is that I can much easily approach girls on my own anywhere. Whether that be in the daytime, in social scenarios or in nightclubs. Most girls IOI me as I'm going about my life. Girls check me out a lot and I think that my confident, laid back, mysterious and flirtatious personality really intrigues the opposite sex. I feel as though I'm on another level when it comes too sub communications. Most girls seem to really dig my vibe and fall into my frame very easily. I've also had large amounts of sexual experience with girls for a guy who is only 22 years of age. I've just recently fucked my 25th girl. Also a few of these girls I've had sex with more than 50 times each as girlfriends back when I used too actually date girls for more than a few weeks lol.

I have been in the game for just a little over three years now. I've been through the motions of coming from a very social background, too learning daytime cold approach, then later to immersing myself in the nightclub scene and I've had success in all areas. I've learnt so much about the art of pick up that if I had only done the same things I was doing three years ago before I started. I would not have achieved as much as I have so far not only in pick up but in my personal life. It has changed my outlook on life and I'm an incredibly ambitios guy who constantly challenges himself to push his comfort zone at all times because of it. I see yearly advancements absolutely crucial to being a man. Living life on your own terms, smashing your own goals and having new experiences as you go through your life is the way too go.

However. As this new year passed I have just recently been through a period of moving into a new apartment in my city centre. I started working for a new company. I smashed myself two pay rises within the first 3 months and I am now earning a nice sum. I've also been working on side business projects and playing a lot of guitar too. I feel as though my game holistically has improved, I feel centered and very in tune with the goals that I want too pursue over the next three years. I kept a report section on my local pick up forum throughout last year with a lot of pick ups I'd attempted and learnt from and also a decent amount of lay reports too before I moved over here because the forum went dead. I am going too start a brand new one on here pretty soon as a layout my new goals.

And that is what I need. Some new goals. I have achieved a lot of things I wanted too achieve already and now, I need a fresh batch too keep my mind from getting bored. I have this strong idea of where I want too take my game next but I just haven't fully layed it out yet. The thing is I am comfortable at this level. I've achieved what most newbs would only dream of doing already at the age of 22. A chill life, girls in my phone I can buzz on, I'm independent and very in tune with myself and content in who I am. But as we all know, game is about constantly pushing that comfort zone, and the last few months I have been in a similar position to a guy in the gym who is still benching 80 when he should be adding some more weights and aiming for 100. I need to progress to a new level. I AM STILL A SQUIRTLE YET TO BECOME A BLASTOISE!

I have to admit. Although I have many natural talents for this that I developed at an early age and I've worked very hard too add a framework to those talents. I could still be better. I could be smoother. I could get more leads from girls in the daytime. I could be more efficient. I could pull off harder pick ups. I could get more insta-dates and SDL's on a weekend. I let some girls go that I really could approach sometimes. There are club venues I've yet to go too, I've had a threesome but I am yet too pull a threesome from a club, although I have come close and blew it last time. I have reflected on that situation and realized where I went wrong. I have very good logistics, I have a decent wardrobe and constantly get complimented on my fashion sense. I am a good looking 22 year old business man slash fucking musician, and I need too develop this even further and become the best I can become. I could get rid of the extra negative energy in my life, stop giving so much of a fuck about other peoples results and stupidity and just focus on what I am doing, just focus on my goals and where I want too take shit for myself next, I need to start looking at who I want to be by 25 and mould my actions and habits to get there...

And I think I have identified my biggest sticking point at the moment. It is the fact that at times I am actually TOO INDIFFERENT. I am too laid back at times and although this is in some ways a great quality to have because I am rarely phased by anything and very nonreactive, just taking that extra little bit of action for myself at some times I think would maximize my results 10 times. I've had countless feedback about this. Once from my old martial arts instructor. After I got my grading in Aikido he told me that there is just a little bit of spark that is lacking, the same thing from my current manager who has said exactly the same thing... "I know you're very laid back and I think it helps you a lot and that's why you do so well here but just that extra bit of effort and zeal and you'll be flying"... And I don't think that they are wrong at all.

I have noticed it in myself too. I think the fact that I'm pretty good looking and nonchalant with girls has worked a charm for me, I have girls approach me sometimes even when I'm just sitting and once I start talking they become attracted too me because of the vibes I seem to give off. I am in some ways very hank moody. I am already miles ahead of most guys. But if I want too really start flying with my results I need too add the mindset of a warrior to this, a little more determination and a little more pro-activity when it is needed, even if it still comes from a place of nonchalance and indifference. And really start kicking some fucking ass.

I need too start adding some effortless effort and really taking every action when opportunities present themselves. I need too start going to the mall to do some daygame solo, even if it's piss pouring it down raining. I need to get my guitar out on a Wednesday night at 8pm and practice even if I'm tired and feel like slouching off. Right now I'd say I probably take action 6 times out of 10 that I should. I'm good but there is always room for improvement. I need too change that 6 into a 10 if I want to maximize my results and really reach the next level of my game. We create our own realities by the actions we take. Lets fucking do this. It's time too go beyond this plateau and give it 100. Let's advance. It's time to go further. Lets fuck some fucking pussy.

What a fucking mind dump. I'll be starting my reports thread with my new goals and becoming a little more active on here soon too.


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