supp everyone!

i have many problems with the comfort phase also in text and in real life..
and because that i have also many flakes.
but i don't really know how to do it and in the good way.
they say Always make yourself open up to her but how to do it an when?
because you can not just do things out of nowhere telling yourself about where you come from , eg: bullying past or you were fat in the past..
can someone explain it but simple and effective?
thanks alot!!
but not with a game like the cube or something i don't like it because you have then to remember that whole game.

You cannot think of anything to say to a girl?

Say anything you like. Why be afraid of what a woman will say? Those who attracted to you will react positively! And those who don’t aren’t worth listening to anyway.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Comfort doesn't mean you're opening yourself up to her. It means that she is accepting of how you are presenting yourself right at this moment. Basically, being comfortable with you is less important than being comfortable with what you want. If you present yourself as a nonsexual friend, she'll likely become comfortable with you up until the point you try to present yourself as a sexual being...then she'll probably flake. If you present yourself as an attractive sexual being from the start, she'll be comfortable with that.

So if you are expressing attraction and she is returning that attraction, you've done what you need to do. There is no need to try to make her comfortable from that point. If she is not returning the attraction, this includes playing along but being vague about attraction to you, then she is likely not on board with what you want.

It's my opinion, but text is just a tool for reinforcement of attraction. If you are trying to build comfort through a text, you won't get too far because it's an emotionless tool that leaves too much room for interpretation.

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