| Reason why there is a “Friend Zone”.
Where most of you get stuck!
Slavery!
Once you are safely in the friend zone, you become her orbiter, women, and girls, like orbiters because they give her validation and do shit for her. They see orbiters as SLAVES. Literally.
Who the fuck wouldn’t want that?
Buying dinners, repairing cars and washing machines, doing laundry, mowing grass…. All sorts of shit they could likely do themselves.
Another common use for orbiters is as an emotions tampon. If you find a woman is starting to dump her emotional problems on you, you are in the friend zone, an orbiter.
Otherwise everything described here can be achieved by a female best friend but by having a guy in the position of "best friend", he hits that male validation sweet spot without any risk at all.
In fact, it still blows my mind that good looking smart dudes delude women into thinking that they don't want to fuck them at all times, just to get on the “inside” WTF?.
You’re doing it to yourselves.
If I walked up and asked your BFF female friend "You realize he's into you right?", they'll always responded with "What? No, ew, we're just friends, we don't see each other like that". But buy her one drink and ask again, the truth comes out, "I know but he's so nice and I don't want to hurt him!” And that bullshit just means "I love what having a slave, and I don't want to mess it up!”
It's YOU my friend that makes a conscious choice to block it out because YOU don't want to admit the truth and risk losing your only chance. Nor admit all along that the only reason you wanted to be 'friends' was because he wanted to get in her panties in the first place.
What? Did you forget that part?
Girl sluts give out sex freely below the market if that’s what you go for. While you “BFF’s” orbiters give out loyalty WAY below the market price, instantly giving her higher value, driving the price skyward, unreachable.
There is no such thing as a female/male best friend. YOU are a SLAVE. They aren’t willing to make the efforts that this kind of female friendship requires. Hence the need for orbiters the fill the roles that female "friends" simply won’t/can’t. The fact that orbiters are much more attentive than girlfriends doesn’t help any.
The most mind boggling is when the new boyfriend, who is the love of her life comes around, stuffing her with dick, but the merry orbiter continues the relationship, hoping it will end in a few weeks or months, or years. Again I say WTF?
This is also why women deny the existence of the "friend-zone" with her BFF. And hate when calls her out on about it.
If their friend zoned orbiters grow a pair and ask her out, she will have to say no and watch her free validation source move on with his life. It's best to keep them in the dark so the "relationship" can go on.
Why are women so incredibly hell-bent on having a male best friend orbiter?
Because they are fucking useful. Let's not kid ourselves here. Little doggie will run itself to death in order to prevent her from coming to the realization that no other guy will put up with the level of bullshit he does without trying to fuck her.
He will just fuck her or leave. Because pussy is cheap, easy and abundant.
She knows the truth, but she wants to forget that so she can abuse him without feeling guilty. To be honest, I don't blame the girl. I blame the fucking orbiter. All he has to do is ditch his false hope and walk away from the shitty situation he already hates.
It’s that easy.
Just because you’re acting the beta orbiter doesn’t mean you must supplicate to women, for eternity, it's not in your emotional wiring since birth. You can return to manhood.
Any fucking time you like!
Your BFF girl? Want to end the hopelessness, heart palpitations, dry mouth, depression, anxiety and the inability to seek out other romantic or sexual relationships? Tell her to pick her fucking fanny up and fuck off and not to trip over a nipple on her way out....
You don’t “NEED” her……For anything!
You shouldn't be frequently hanging out with someone you are deeply attracted to/want to pursue a relationship with anyway. Don't why most men see past this? It's painful at first, but that stems from inexperience. Either go after her right away or pursue enough other women that she doesn't becomes you’re only priority. Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option, not ever.
I write this largely to show the huge spectrum of other men to understand more of the “Friend Zone”.
There will be plenty of guys who will read this and think "my relationship with my girl isn't like that, I'm not an orbiter."
And then time will pass. And they will realize they were wrong.
Your situation is not unique, it’s epidemic.
This is a common reaction affecting millions of men daily.
IF, YOU are doing things for,……..buying things for,…….emotionally supporting, a female that has ever given you a boner…and you are not fucking her,….. YOU have “oneitis”…….YOU are in the “friend zone”…..YOU are an “Orbiter”.
Some things can't be said. Some men will have to suffer this in their own skin to learn the lesson.
I was one once.
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