I have repeated fails with my texting game. I went without a phone for a year are or so. I usually try opening with a neg and try not to come on to strong. I don't text back a lot mostly cause I really am busy but conveying that and not seeming like a player is tricky. There's this one girl that's been stringing me along it seems and I have yet land a meet up. She's got a 4 year old works as a nurse so I know she doesn't have much time were as I work salvaging auto parts and am overly invested in my hobbies so. Now she said for me to come over Wednesday. Then flaked saying she had to work over which was probably true. I responded "if you were anyone else I woulda slipped off the hook already" she respond " guess I'm a lucky girl then" if I can get the meet up I real it'll work out. I do care about her but I'm not sure we're this is bound to go as far as relationships go. Trying to get her to be thinking of the meet up thought I would plant the idea of kayaking cause it seems like a bonding experience then camping then escalate her and go from there........sound like a good plan guys? Any advice or criticism on my routine would be most appreciated. What's some guidelines for texting? I don't text a lot mostly because I'm not to quick at it and don't want to write too much leaving them no room for their imagination to flourish.

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viewtopic.php?f=53&t=189023 Here is the bible on texting. You can also Google around.

The way you word your post, seems like you're just too lazy and impatient to text. If I'm wrong, then perhaps come back to pick up when you have time for girls.

It's a skill bro. The more you do it the better you get. I'm texting a girl right now that is a pain in the ass, I held my frame so strong and she is now chasing me like crazy. I used to be useless at texting, I was the 'Hey, how r u? X" type of guy.

You can use tinder for good practise. Or, you can try calling them if you're impatient

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Complete wrong response. She flakes on you so you reward her by telling her how special she is? Don't do it.

Read the guide and practice. These conversations, texts and such all have repeatable patterns that you can become naturally good at. You don't need to convey you're a 'player.'

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I'm far from lazy if anything I'm every in motion. I've got a flip phone with T-9 for one. Patience has never been my forte. What do you mean when you said building your frame? Thanks for the link bro

Your right ,didn't see it in that perspective at the time. Makes a lot of sense. I work a lot, I would assume that she would think I was a "player" due to not texting very much is what was meaning to imply in my post. I'll check out both of those links y'all sent right now ,thank you guys for the advice.

Holy shit you have a phone with buttons?

Buy a smart phone, no wonder you're you hate text game having to press a button potentially 3 times for one character.

Get a smart phone, get SPAM, increase your chances of getting laid. Go with the economy not against it. Girls spend most of their time on SPAM.

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Yeah I'm much farther from being a tech guru than don Juan lol. It's ironic I spent the last 4 years, on and off, doing 4g installations for Sprint, Verizon, and AT&T before they merged with Sprint. I worked as a climber and loved it. I know I need to upgrade lol

I read your link and unlike the majority i've studied what it takes to truly master any aspect of interest. Robert Greens mastery is an excellent read. Complacency plays a huge role in people's inability to develop properly. It takes 20,000 hours roughly to reach any true mastery. That's why individuals like Bruce lee, Leonardo da Vinci, Jimmy page, Bob dylan, and so on were such transcendental characters. In these forums, from what I've read, seems like mostly psychology and "being the best you, you can be" that's something I've already worked tirelessly on. We're all wired different and discerning that, is the first step to learning our strengths. I intend to put time into this endeavor, not just to get women but to grow my business and my potential. There was a lot of girls in my family growing up. It makes since physiologically that I try to hard to provide or gain approval from women.

What's what'll lol

Cool

You gonna get a smart phone though?

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Yeah I'm getting one of them I-phones whenever I get to Ohio from the company. About three weeks I'm leaving bama and headin' to Cincinnati