More then a few months back i had a girlfriend and two girls i was fucking on the side. I didnt care much for them and just wanted sex. Then they wanted to get serious and i was just always putting up excuses to not move to the next level with them. So it ended kinda badly with both of them. Because i didnt call them for valentines day or really spend time with them etc. they got the hint and just stopped talking to me.

Now im single and im single and im back in the game so i tried reconnecting with some of these girl i fucked already. To get my momentum going. But now these girls dont want to fuck, they want to date, and not even kiss. It actually feels like we go on just friendly dates. And when i say "why not kissing or hugging?" they say respond "lets just let things fall into place or im over sex and kisses i dont need it to be happy".

I got a feeling these girls have someone else in their lives and they are maybe playing me like i did them or just want to know things can get serious this time around.

What can i do with old fuck buddies like this? How do i get beyond this whole thing and back to fucking all day.?

You're probably gonna have to find some new FBs.

You've already tainted these ones. They want a relationship.

A lot of girls hit 27, 28, 29, 30... somewhere around there, and just start looking for something serious -- and that's probably not helping you. They already know you're not serious (about a relationship).

You fell into their frame bro.

They are now acting as important as you've begun to treat them. Girls always try to pull this shit, and the way to avoid it is to stick to your guns. Had you not caved by "Dating" them and just defended your position as to why you don't want to, they would of eventually came around. With the hope of still winning you over.

Truth be told though man... Don't go backwards. You want to get the momentum going? You gotta get your ass out there and approach. It really isn't hard. In 3 days tops, you'll have something steady you can start making moves with. You don't sound like the type of guy that has any real issues, you're just in a lower place than you were before.

Stand back up and get out there man. You're reducing yourself further by doing things with women you didn't feel worthy prior to you having no other options.

You still have to act like that guy, if you want them to act the way they used to. Their behavior is only a reflection of yours.

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