Outcome Independence and the Friendzone



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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2015 12:14 am 
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I've been running into a gray area on first dates (Not social sethings or a night out with the bros). I cannot seem to balance outcome independence/aloofness and avoiding the friendzone. Obviously you want to be the prize that she must win over, but not showing desire for her in will land me in the friendzone or beta category. Sometimes I feel like the more I try to escalate whether it be sexual convo, kino, or kiss, I surrender my interests and give her control. How can you not care about the outcome without showing your intentions and not be perceived as needy? Seems a catch 22 in a sense depending on the interaction. Ps. I'm a noob.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2015 10:35 am 
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You obviously want to fuck her...

But you don't care if you fuck her or not.

Make sense?


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2015 10:48 am 
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You are offering pleasure to her.

She is replaceable. You can take it or leave it because you have a phone full of girls texting you.

If you don't have a phone full of girls chasing you, I guess you will have to fake it till you make it. But eventually you will become it. Getting laid with new girls is so much easier when you have 3 fuck buddies on the go. They see the twinkle, they know you're not gagging for it. It is a 6th sense, it is the smell of preselection.

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