I'm going to break it down it 4 parts the scenarios i'm usually facing.

1. Get a meet up but no day two's. I've had meals cancelled with my family in the thought i'm going out with this girl to eat. She moans and says im mean to her and make her feel like shit, but moans i don't want to see her. When it comes down to it she blanks my calls and texts. However she still sends me nudes on tap :/

2. We get on and off, never met(lives far) sends nudes. Will comment on photos if she sees me with another girl like cute couple etc. BUT WON'T MEET

3. Met this girl few times haven't fucked. But meetings always on her terms (she has put it on a plate before but i just didn't want to) Shes at uni away from where we live. I know uni life she's going to have her head turned all the time. Complains i wont meet her or come down to her uni, but when it comes to meeting when i want to shell alwyas throw a fake argument into the mix or its just not suitable for her.

4.The easiest by far and most common convo usually starts of well, i go for the meet. Nothing happens usually get blanked early on interactions or they end up talk about other boys or saying how hot my friends are.

Sounds like you are supplicating her needs instead of your own. Don't bother with dinner as a Day 2, keep it as a casual coffee or drink somewhere near your place so you can bounce her back to yours for sex.

Keep it sexual. You're probably not being physical enough. Don't forget eye contact and escalation. If you were more masculine and on top of your shit, she wouldn't test you by mentioning other guys.

could you explain the coloured bit in more detail

Supplicating means you try to think of ways you can please / satisfy her to make her like you, instead of getting her to please you, which is what you should be doing.

Don't give her any favours until she gives you sex. Don't help her, don't give her free rides, just arrange a casual meet up in a bar or café. Then escalate.

Being on top of your shit / masculine basically means you don't take shit from people. Masculine men quickly move on to the next woman if one particular woman is being flaky or giving them shit. You should be sub-communicating this to her in your willingness to walk away. Sounds like you are more emotionally invested in her than she is into you. You are doing all the chasing.

Without seeing the actual messages, it's hard to give you more specific advice than this.

Hey brother, I feel your pain.

Let me tell you a story.

A few years ago I was crushing on this Russian stunner. I was crushing hard - I was really falling for this girl and losing my sense of self. The thing is, every time I set up dates, she kept flaking. Finally, the stars had seemed to align and she had a day off to spend with me. I felt like the luckiest man on the planet, that this incredible woman was going to spend an entire day with me. I spent the entire evening planning the following day, to the minute detail. If I had but one day to woo her, I would do it in a legendary fashion.

The morning of, after having hardly slept the previous night, I receive a phone call: "let's push it back til noon". Okay, not so bad. I waited til noon and got another call "something came up, let's push it back til 3". I was getting a little annoyed but whatever. By 3, I received another call "I don't think I can make it til 6" and at that point the day was shot. I hung up, furious.

Why am I telling you this story? Because whenever I would have a date set up, it would be the biggest deal ever. I would clear my entire schedule, I would always be super well prepared, dressed up and ready to go, and I would sit nervously for an hour or two until it was time to leave the house. Why? Dates are not a big deal, and I was making them into one.

That's whats happening with you. Who the hell cancels plans with family for a girl? That's what was shocking to me. Although the poster above me was wrong about what masculinity is, he was right on the money when talking about supplication. I don't like the 'until you get sex part' because that's just high school.

Look, dates are normal and fun, and you are pretty much ensuring that you're having neither. Relax! Stop setting dates - set up adventures. Don't clear all your plans and make a big deal out of it. Instead, plan something fun you're both interested in and then set a date.

The reason these women are not meeting up with you is because they are not feeling your masculine edge - they do not feel the thirst for passion, the drive in life, something new.

Best of luck
Mack

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