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before meeting up with her tonight. i set myself over text as high value...
tonight i was just really focusing on building comfort, rapport, EC. but that didnt happen!!

when decided to go to the movies tonight. on the way there it was fluff talk. we arrived to the movies a little to early. went to the mall....i focused on banter and being funny, negging with her...afterwhile she gave me a sassy remark and i did a take away took a step and before i could take another she grabbed me tight and pulled me into her. (at this point i knew i built a good amount of attraction in her.) once we go to the mall i tired to built more comfort with her but i wasnt happening...rapport wasnt working she would give me good stuff here and there to talk about but she would mostly hold back i realized. once i was leaving the mall she noticed i had hickeys from another girl....and the tone in her face and body language changed. asked me "are those hickeys i told her it was a bruised and i got punched in the neck joking around. lol after that i changed topics

she brought it up again "who gave you those hickeys" i told her my mom......(didnt really care at this point.)
her defense shield was up higher now. she was mad at me.
throughout the movie i made funny remarks and she was mad at me and tried not to laugh.....

once the movie was over i tried to build an EC w her she was like i dont do much not really...still not really opening up. at this point she wasnt that mad at me...on the way home i just made her laugh alot and teased her...but she didnt start to open up till the end why?...

once, i got to her house i made we kissed a couple of time after all this BS...

before leaving i told "i had a good time with you, hopefully next time you actually talk"
she said "next time don't get hickeys and walked away" after i tired to kiss her one more time and didn't happen...she turned her cheek and started to walk away....i guess i should of been a little more aggressive here.

ive never really had this problem before what could i of done to lower that shield she had with me in the beginning.

how do i get her to open up more. to build more comfort and create that EC... i feel like she see me as high value..

lastly, what would be a good text to send tomorrow about last night to get another meet up

ANY other question or anything i need to add for you guys that you dont get let me know....id like to see her again

she also said i was predictable how can some be like that.....i guess i was just fucking with her the whole night teasing make her laugh but i dont really know

whats your critics

Cheers guys