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This one of my main sticking points during my interactions- Both in field and in text game.
Most of the time i am present to the moment but for some reason i am always looking on whats the girls reaction is to go further. & the girls reaction usually affects my vibe as well whether its a good reaction or bad reaction.
How do i break away from that and continuing being centred and not be affected by any outcome/reaction whether its good or bad??
Hello Angelo,
Hope you're doing well.
First, I'd like to comment on something: saying you are mostly present and then talking about how youre always looking for an outcome or reaction is contradictory. It's not your fault per-se. It's just interesting to see how the seduction community has distorted a spiritual concept. I suggest you find out what being present truly means.
In any case, your problem is a common one. In fact it's almost the rule and not the exception. However, because most people are like this doesn't make it okay. It's called collective insanity.
The reason you are behaving this way is because you depend on others for your self-worth. You depend on others for your self-worth because you do not know yourself.
This is where it gets tricky, and where most people are not willing to venture. If you do however, I promise you it will be infinitely more rewarding than anything you can learn in this community.
"On this path, effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure." - Bhagavad Gita
Know yourself.
With love and respect
Mack
Centered Man Project
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