i frequently go out and open girls on the streets and most of the time it goes quite well + i always number close. but the recurring problem is when i text them that same day they sometimes don't reply or if they reply for a while, within a few days they stop replying, even if everything seemed to go quite well. what am i repeatedly doing wrong?

Often what guys do is they walk up to a girl and have a brief conversation, ask for the phone number and then leave. This gives the girl no real connection with the guy. She may be attracted to him for a brief moment but her day moves on and so does that attraction. When you get a phone number that shouldn't be the end of your conversation. You want to build on that moment to increase your attractiveness. You should actually want to take her out on an instadate, but if that's not possible spend some time just talking to her so she doesn't flake on you.

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thanks jack I'll try that out and see if it works

You want to give her something to grab on to (not that, that's for later ). What I mean is, that you want her to find out some solid information about you during the initial interaction.

You want to frame your initial interaction on the street or anywhere out in the world that it is a date itself, even if it only lasts 3 minutes.

Through your deep eye contact, your flirtatious manner, your kino, your manner of speaking with her in the same comfortable way you would speak with a girlfriend, she connects with you.

You aren't just another guy, you are one in a million who she has met, and SHE WANTS MORE WHERE THAT CAME FROM.

Internalize the mindframe of, You are the prize, they are in the desert and you are the ONLY ONE with water.

oceanx when you say to make her find out some solid information about me you mean connect with her am I correct?

I mean to provide her with some details about you so you're not just some dude. What you're studying, that kind of thing.

thanks