This is a facet of my game which is unfamiliar.

I had a good night of sarging last night. I was confident and able to generate a good level of social proof by establishing rapport with the girls around me.

This cute blonde appeared from nowhere and opened me. I do remember she complemented me. I accepted the compliment and said something innocuous, which made her laugh. We started to fluff talk (I said "so, where are your friends tonight?). She pointed in the direction of the dance floor and also mentioned her BF was "over there". This was all in the space of a few minutes.

Fine. I was already blazing through attraction with another girl anyway, who at this point had gone to the bathroom. The comment put me off, mainly because I've not prepared for this eventuality.

I kept up my energy though and it didn't effect my ability to establish rapport with her. But this chick kept on hanging around me for a while. I wasn't overly concerned with prolonging the conversation. The cute brunette I was sarging beforehand had already returned from the bathroom and was circling the two of us.

This blonde was however re-initiating the conversation and wanted more of my attention, which turned out to be a good jealously manoevre. But I just couldn't help notice the contradiction between her wanting my attention and pointing out her BF in the crowd. She could have easily left that stuff out.

Now, apart from the possibility of something weird going on with this girl and her boyfriend, I just wanted some thoughts about sarging a girl whose boyfriend is in the vicinity. For me, it's psychologically off-putting.

NOT TO SOUND MECHANICAL, BUT YOU NEED TO ESTABLISH THE CHARACTERISTICS OF THE ALPHA-MALE. IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE JUST ASK AND ILL TELL YOU, BUT IT LOOKS LIKE YOU DO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE. THE SECOND ASPECT TO THIS IS THAT HER BOYFRIEND IS THE ALPHA MALE OF THE GROUP AND THAT IS ONLY MADE KNOWN TO YOU BECAUSE IT BOTHERS YOU, NOT BECAUSE HE IS PRESENT. IF HE WAS PRESENT YOU RECOGNIZE HIS PRESENCE BUT OUT ALPHA HIM WHICH IT APPEARED YOU COULD HAVE EASILY DONE BECAUSE SHE WAS INTO YOU. I THINK THAT WAS AN ISSUED IGNORED ALTOGETHER. WHY DIDNT YOU GO AFTER HER? NOT THAT YOU HAD TO AND I KNOW YOU HAD A CHICK YOU WERE ALREADY SARGING, BUT YOU COULD HAVE GOTTEN BOTH AND DONE WHO KNOWS WHAT THAT NIGHT. BUT THATS WHY THEY CALL IT THE FIELD. TO GO THROUGH TRIAL AND ERROR, TO PASS AND TO FAIL. TO SUCCEED AND TO CONQUEOR