Good day Lads,

Having a situation with a South African girl who is fun but playing games all the time..
Its been one month we have been hanging, spending time almost everyday, even we slept one night together but nothing happened.. When we talk serious she is saying she doesnt wanna have something serious and i ignored her twice which i obviously showed her that i just want a shag! After i ignored her she started to call and i ignored 2 days and at the and we started to hang again.. Two nights ago she came to my place we had wine but nothing happened again.. And last night she called me to say she gonna come to me but she did not come and even she did not call.. She is just playing it up and down..
So what would you do in case of that kinda situation??


Cheers !!

In a pickup forum you're going to find guys like me telling you that a month is entirely too long of a time period to be spending nearly every day with a girl and to not make a move. Unless you've been trying to make moves and she's been rejecting, in which case she sees you as a friend.

Dude no offense but you are saying that she slept over your house had some wine and nothing? What the fuck is wrong with you? Off course she is not going to do nothing she is practically telling you to fuck her and you did nothing. She is probably thinking you are not attracted to her!!!


On the real I can not understand these new generation young guys. I read post after post of how they get a girl to sleep over in there bed and not fuck her.


I swear when I was 18 and now that I am 30 if a woman I want to fuck just steps into my bedroom you better believe that I would not take more than 10 min before I am pounding my dick in her.


Just think about it ? While else would she be in your fucking house by herself and in your fucking bed. What you think she is there to play cards???

The thing is i tried her and she said 'You cant afford it yet!' And i thought that she needs some time but i think one month too much.. Its better to move on.

Thanks for the replies

She told you you can't afford her??? What is she a gold digger??? What she wants her to buy her things ???


If she is let me know I can really help you out. I am really good at fucking those types of women. There is a certain way that you need to game them with out spending money on them.