Ok, cute girl just left my house. Its four am on a weekday. She was here for six hours and the entirety of the six hours was spent sitting on the couch bullshitting and cracking jokes. The fucked up problem is ive studied pickup logic, ive taken said knowledge to the field and I can pull women, kiss women, get numbers, go home with them/take them home,so long story short I can tell when a girl is down to fuck but whenever this happens I freeze up. This is what happened tonight. She was dtf for four fucking hours. I could've had sex, read a couple chapters of Finnegans wake, and had glorious sex again but instead im sitting here deprived with my thumb up my ass wondering wtf my problem is. Its not like i have an incompetance problem. I have no problems with my sexual preformance, at least i never have, but its been around eight months since ive gotten laid. All this time ive had maybe nine or ten opportunities to change this dry spell but i keep falling into this problem. I need help. Theres gotta be somebody on here that's been through this. Theres gotta be someone that feels my pain and has broken through to the other side. Please, fellow men, tell me how to come out of this.

I chicken out constantly, normally much earlier. If I had a chick alone in a room I don't imagine I'd still choke as you are. For me it's a comfort issue due to life history.

I guess the first thing to do is figure out why you are like that... what fear is it that is winning you?

Well I guess theres no clear sticking point here looking back. I wrote this in hasty frustration lol. But I think my problem stems from not being able to switch from charisma mode to seduction mode when its crunch time. When its time to bullshit I can be seductive freely but when the situation becomes "we are supposed to be having sex" I freeze up entirely. Also, sometimes, when rapport building is going really good and im getting to know the girl Im unable to be sexual at all.

Well, at least you are aware of you problem. I found that if I work on my kino the issue of turning sexual is less of an issue.

Thanks that's perfect. What resource would you recommend for learning more about kino escalation?

Youtube. Just search it. Please come back with with what you find. I'm curious to know what jumps out at you as this was one of my major problems too.

Well ive read gamblers natural game and strauss's book but ill check out some videos and let you know. Ive also watched the gambler videos on this website about kino escalation. It was pretty good shit but like I said ill do some browsing and post an update. Thanks again brother