Been working on my game. Not going to talk about the actual relationships and encounters that I've had, thats another post.

Instead I want talk about the all important harem of numbers that I collect and nuture towards........sex!
In the past I would go out, get a chics number and then focus on trying to get further with her. Yes I have long since moved past that mistake.

I now have a harem of chics numbers that I try to keep entertained and ready for sexual favours. It feels like managing a bunch of employees...the irrational kind...However I've noticed a few things that are worth discussing.

1) If you're already fucking with one or more of your numbers, do you get careless about cultivating the others?

I found myself doing this. I was banging Girl A and stopped making an effort to keep Girl B engaged via text, SPAM etc. Even though Girl B was giving me very strong signals I was way too lukewarm.
Now that me and Girl A have split up I have attempted to renew my rapport with Girl B. However I think she suspects something and she has grown cold on me. Its like there has been a subtle shift in the dynamics and now I chasing her (which isn't going to last cos I refuse to put those kind on a pedestal!)
So whats the right frame of mind to have?
What I'm getting at is how to maintain lots of parrallel sexual, or atleast flirtatious, relationships, that are totally isolated from each other. How do you invest the correct energy levels in all of them?

2)When you have a chic living abroad.
Yep, one of my digits lives on foreign soil...lets call her Girl C....(I mean, just how unreasonable can these women be??) She's actually a really cool chic...(ok, thats more than enough as far as compliments go.) Shes been requesting for me to visit for a while now and I've been postponing. Now I sense that we are reaching that critical point where she'll eventually become too disappointed to care as much. Naturally I will only travel when its convenient for me...but I plan on dropping off her radar for a few days and then contacting her when I'm reclining in a hotel in her country. Then all she'll have to do is take a taxi to my hotel room, preferably with no underwear on.....Anybody got any advice on handling long-distance flings?

3) Harvesting numbers.
I make it my duty to constantly get more numbers. I find that when I loose a number it usually happens in pairs. My harem is pretty thin right now so I am going to spend the next few weeks recruiting more hoes. Also I'm in need of a cool wingman. The last bunch of dudes I sarged with were idiots. Guys who waited for me to open, then couldn't wait to trample over my shoes to chat to the chic that I was gaming on. Once I find the right wingman my game will improve exponentially!!