Hey guys.
Im quite new to this stuff and I have this problem with texting.

I could open quite well when the girl is alone, but I don't really open well in groups. I usually talk in a Cocky Funny way which is probably the stuff im most comfortable doing whether I like it or not. I like to do some light hearted kino on the girl I am aiming for and I usually get number closes quite easily.

The problem is,
I can't text.
In fact, I suck donkey balls in texting. Its the same with most girls Im aiming for, of course they were some girls who clicked with me and texting wasn't really hard, and there are also times where the girls were the ones chasing me instead.

But other than those special cases, I really suck at texting.



Any help?

1. I'm not a big fan of this texting game stuff. One thing I always am sure to tell girls is that I'm just too busy to text all day, and it's just the way I am but you should consider yourself really lucky if you can get more than a yes or no out of me while texting. I use it to set up meetings and that's about it. I text my buddies way more than I text any girl I'm interested in.

2. Alot of guys blame their text game when in reality the girl just isn't interested in them. So you have to look out for that. It's extremely easy to get the number, even if she isn't interested in you, and it's hard to play text game that will build attraction.

3. Any time you get a number, leave on a high note, leave with a reason to text her (like say that you will text her to set up a date next weekend. Make your intentions clear.

I open groups by just finding something to comment on, then i act really lively, usually approach a dude in the group first "YO YOU LIKE THE BLACK HAWKS, (see his jersey) I LOVE THEM" \ how do you all know eachother? Then i stand in the middle and take a wide stance and point to each one and say "names"

makes you the center of attention

Some girls suck at texting too.

You don't have to be an amazing texter. Just keep your English clean (spelling-mistake free, if you can), and try not to get too wordy. A few words is fine when texting, as long as when you're actually with the girl in person, you'd chatty as hell and show a lot of interest.

If she ever asks, just say you've never been a big texter.

what is bad at texting...When texting becomes a problem is usually because you arent getting responses after a number close, where are you meeting these girls, how fast are you getting the number? did you connect with them? if you give more details I can give you more advice....

as far as day game goes, the last thing on your mind should be to get a phone number, the most important thing to aim for is to make sure she know this is not a buddy buddy nice conversation, and to take this as far as possible right there and then. instead of a number, take her for a drink, if its early, suggest a coffee, tell her to tag a long on a walk....building this type of connection and commitment will make texting MUCH less of part of the process

Eye contact. You can force an IOI and get her curious about you.

You can wave her over to come to you which will get her away from her friends.

If she doesn't come over, you can go to her and say hi, you can simply tell them that they look great and if it is ok if you could take their friend to the bar with you.

However, winning her friends over is the key to a SNL in my opinion.

Texting- It's not important, an interested girl would you respond to a 'Hi ,how are you? would you be up for a drink sometime? ' text so it depends if the number is solid. Phone numbers don't mean much unless she is interested,

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Usually in Campus.

See a nice girl, chat her up, if she looks interested in me, I get her number and then leave, if not,I try to get her interested first, then ask for the number.

All that In around 5-10 minutes and always with confidence when asking the number(pulling out my phone when I'm asking her).

Ok it sounds like you aim to get the number and that is just enough time to be forgettable and to add to that the fact that college girls are flaky.

From now on ones you start seeing she is interested, challenge her a bit by disagree or a tease where she starts to chase a bit (this is to make sure you really hook) and physically escalate , especially if you want to pull her home.

From here go for an instant date (could be anything really) and genuinely try to get to know her. The most important part of game for a girl is comfort.

The number is just plan b, cause either she can't hang out then or you can't hangout then