It's happened a few times, and as I get more comfortable doing kino it is bound to come up again.

It always happens when things are really good with a girl. First time I was talking to a girl and a loser says "hand on her hip, smooth." He was cock blocking, but his comment was genuine. the girl got embarrassed and ejected. I should have reopened, but this was a while ago. The most recent time was last night and I'm vibing out with an HB server off shift and bar regular who was sitting with her too commented when she left to to washroom that if she was behind the I wouldn't be touching her leg. "Obviously" i said, thinking it's only an issue of bad geography. She came back and he was all in a huff because of my dismissive attitude toward his obvious objection. She asked what's up and I said he had issue with me touching her leg. He rattled and jabbered on about how he doesn't like people touching his friends. Their "friendship" be that he is an old AFC dude that buys her drinks and calls her pretty.

How to best deal with random chodes messing with your interaction like this? I'm not talking about real friends with real concerns. Nor am I talking about heavy escalation; think one step past friendly but not explicitly sexual.

If they embarrass the girl by calling attention to the fact they are letting me touch them in a way the cockblocker can't do, how to recover and alleviate the girls embarrassment. How to tell the guy to mind his own business. I'm not embarrassed, or sneaky about touching a girl. Last night it was while talking to her HB bartender coworker and the owner chilling out too, and the girl was kinoing back. Everything was cherry until fuckface piped up.

That may happen sometimes. Best thing to do is keep the kino friendly and sociable when you are in a group of her friends, especially if you don't know the relationships. Kino with everybody, girls and guys in that setting. You have to calibrate, I'm not sure how you did the leg touching, but you want it to seem casual. Try isolating her first before you start escalating.

I had an incident where things were going really with this girl and I escalated very innocently (high fives), and then did a side hug, then her ex-boyfriend saw it and came back to the set. Had I restrained from escalating and just gamed her until I isolated her so I can amp the escalation, the set could have run smoother.

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Everything I'm coming up with doesn't seem to work very well. Never really experienced this. Usually it's a part of her group that tries to cockblock or a drunk dude, and they've never cock blocked by calling out kino. If they say something rude about me I usually go in to hug the girl "over acting" like he hurt my feelings just to fuck with the guy. Then pull the girl away. If it was her friend then I be sure to tease her about how she obviously has great taste in friends.

But this wouldn't work at all in your case.

The best I got is to come back with "This is how we say hello where I come from". But even that would be heavily dependent on how funny you could get it to come across.